Due to poverty, they dropped their parents on a footpath. Would their parents have done the same to them?
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I sometimes wonder how can one do that
btw there is an alternate for fucking bastards and that is fucktard
I’m not saying this is alright, it’s NOT AT ALL alright. But your question would their parents have done the same to them?
Apparently yes! If you’ve been following the news there was a family who dumped their daughter in the bin because she was ill and they didn’t have money to feed their children, let alone pay for her treatment!!
@Saad: Thanks for the useful info!
@Siras: Then that gives the parents the same title as the children above. But in this case, I’m talking about the parents above.
If parents don’t care about their children, they have every right to complain and return the favor. But if that’s not the case…
Uh, haven’t they been doing that? That would make them.. what?
None of it is right man… but our nerves are dying!
Sometimes our own sins make us to reach this stage. I am not commenting on this respected couple but it happens that we mistreat our parents and in turn our kids do same with us. Is it not common in our society that a son throws his parents out of home just because his “darling wife” can’t tolerate them? Such couple forget that one day they would also reach to same stage. Everyone has to grow old no matter how sexy or pretty he or she looks. Every one has to die one day. The movie Baghban was on similar lines.
May Allah don;t make us stone hearted enough that we mistreat our parents like that.Ameen
Nothing gives us the right to treat our parents this way, nothing!! Of that, there is no doubt!
Heartening image
To quite some extent, the state affairs are involved in this throwing away act too. Are we moving towards need of old age homes in our “protected society” now?
“…Is it not common in our society that a son throws his parents out of home just because his “darling wife” can’t tolerate them?…”
@adnan true! it is quite common in Pakistan! where the wifes can’t “tolerate” them or sometimes they themselves leave the house because their daughter in law and sons treat them badly
Thing is that these parents did not dump their children, but the children did so! Pathetic!
In other news, the parents who threw away their daughter, if she had done this after growing up (in case she got a chance) that would’ve been justifiable.
Asma, nah. I would second what sairas said above:
Nothing gives us the right to treat our parents this way,
how do you blame society here? If I mistreat my family then it’s not society’s fault.
Saad, *nods*. I believe there are better ways to resolve saas-bahu conflicts rather creating such bad environment which could result such bad examples.
@Absar: Morally, yes.
@Adnan: True. I don’t like Amitabh but that was a good movie!
@Siras: Indeed. But their are special cases.
@Asma: I think we might. Blame the media too!
@Saad: Indeed!
@Anas: My point exactly.
@Adnan: Their are responsibilities for parents too. If they throw you out as soon as you’re born, what status do they have in front of Allah? There are a lot of cases where the child is illegitimate and the parents leave it at an Edhi centre. What about them?
Like?
Read my reply to Adnan, right above your comment.
First of all I despise the term “illegitimate”. It’s quite annoying for me. Who are we to call someone legitimate or illegitimate while Allah Himself has defined standards to measure the quality of a human?
O mankind, indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.(Quran 49:13)
As far as answering your question, their out come should not be different than those kids who throw their parents like that. Rest, Allah knows the best.
Having a child is legitimate only after marriage. Based on this rule of Shariah, the child becomes legitimate or illegitimate. It’s his parents fault they were not thoughtful enough. We’re only talking about the nobility of birth here.
The child may become righteous once he’s grown up.
That is indeed a very sad image…
if only children knew how special their parents are, and how by serving and looking after them, they can simply earn a ticket to jannah…
just stumbled upon ur page, a very nice blog! :))
I have read those hadiths which you are referring here and I was not referring Shariah. I am talking about people who abuse this by calling someone illegitimate on his/her face. This is not allowed. You wwill find several online religious forums where such people have complained about this matter.
@X Smiley X: Welcome to my blog!
@Adnan: Abuse of anything is bad dude.
But in that scenario, the child wouldn’t know his parents and so there really wouldn’t be a chance of his mistreating them!
You think too much!
How did you come to know?
I think too, remember?
LOL!
Oh god.
This is so sad …
I was wrong SAWJ fucktard stands for fucking retard:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fucktard
Urban Dictionary is cool!
Still applicable here!